cope with their children suffering from child stress if they themselves become stress sufferers.
Experts’ advice in parenting on easier coping with child stress is this: The adults raising children, first, should try to avoid stress for themselves. In parenting, especially if already having to cope with child stress, do rest. If at home, rest mid-morning. If you are at home and parenting young children, you should rest also for half an hour after lunch, or an hour before children return home.
If you cannot cope well, or if child stress appears severe, do consult a parenting or child stress expert.
Child stress is often contributed to because the parents ‘don’t understand’ the child. Don’t simply criticise or forbid children. Explain. Make allowance for the child’s age. Do not assume that having told the child ‘a million times’ the child necessarily understood or even that can, yet, understand what an adult can. It may lessen a child’s stress sometimes for parents to recall their own childhood...
(Verse by teacher the late Orhan Seyfi Ari...)
"Sometimes such fools we were, sometimes smart kids
Sometimes Satan's tools, sometimes with saintly deeds"
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